The Secret of Rising to The Top in Marriage by Dr Becky Enenche

Proverbs 31:10-12;23; 28-30 KJV

The bottom line for a successful martial destiny is anchored on 3 very vital personalities

1. The Role of God the Father – God is the one that gives dignity and blesses the marital relationship, he is the one that gives color to a successful marriage.
2. The Husband Factor – The fear of God in the man is a vital criteria and vital necessity for the success of that man in the marriage. the man has one singular assignment for a successful marriage is concerned
   1. The assignment is for a husband to love his wife. (Ephesians 5:25 KJV)5 Points on this love from a man to make a woman feel so loved, so valued:
      1. Love is not envious, love is trusting. Trust your wife, don’t be envious of your wife. 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 KJV. The husband has complete trust in his wife’s ability to take care of him.
      2. Patience. Husbands, please be patient with your wives. (1 Peter 3:7 KJV)
      3. Kindness. Be Kind to your wife. Be considerate. (Ephesians 5:25 KJV)
      4. Love does not insist on its own rights. 1 Corinthians 13:5 KJV. Be careful be conscious. Take time
      5. Praise her. 1 Corinthians 13:5 AMP. Don’t be rude to your wife. Love is not rude, Love is not arrogant. Proverbs 31:23 KJV. Proverbs 31:28 KJV.
3. The Wife Factor – The fear of God in the woman is a vital criteria and vital necessity for the success of that woman in the marriage
   1. The only Assignment for a wife is submission. Ephesians 5:22-23 KJVYou won’t go around talking to your husband anyhow or behaving anyhow to him because you are conscious of the fact that if I behave anyhow to him I am indirectly behaving anyhow to the Lord.
      1. What does submission entail:
         1. Subjection means “Secondary to”. 1 Peter 3:1 KJV. Wives should look at their husbands as a king. See yourself as one of his subjection and citizens meaning you are secondary too
         2. Subjection refers to “Dependent on”. 1 Peter 3:1 AMP. Let him know and let him feel it. A man wants to feel that he is in charge.
         3. Subjection refers to “Adapt yourself to your husband”. 1 Peter 3:1 AMP. Learn what he wants and then present to him what he wants.
         4. Subjection means “Respect him”. 1 Peter 3:1 AMP. Don’t be rude to him.
         5. Subjection means “Praise him”. 1 Peter 3:1 AMP. Learn to say thank you.